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Here is my list of virtually every useful baby item I can think of to help you through the first 6 months (and a few beyond) of parenthood. We’ve tested and approved all of these newborn/baby items! These are products that we’ve used, enjoyed and have worked for us. I am working on being accepted to the Amazon Associates program, so click on those links Mamas! I hope you’ll find these items just as useful as we did (and still do)! A small percentage of the products bought through my page will go towards Maggie’s diaper fund 😉 Many Thanks
<<<Halo Sleepsack 100% Cotton Swaddle Magaret was born a month early so she was a tad too tiny for this when we first brought her home, but we used this swaddle as soon as she reached 6lbs. It’s so much easier than wrapping a swaddle each night. I love the options for “arms in” or “arms out”. And it zips from the bottom up so it’s easy to change your babe in the middle of the night.
Aden + Anais Swaddle Muslin 4-Pack >>> My Aunt got us these adorable cotton muslin swaddles. I wrapped Maggie up in these soft blankets for the first month of her life (other fixed swaddles were too big). I learned how to wrap them by hand at a class in the hospital, but this video is a great way to learn too. They are so versatile and can be used as blankets, car seat covers, burp cloths etc. Here is a sweet picture of my own baby burrito.
<<<Dr. Brown’s Bottles for Breastfed Baby These slow-flow bottles were perfect after a few weeks of breastfeeding when I wanted to introduce pumped bottles (so Dan could help with night-time feedings YESSSSS). Maggie seemed to choke or spit up with any other kind of nipple that wasn’t labeled “slow flow” and I love the vent that reduces gas. I prefer these to the Como Tomo bottles that are difficult to unscrew and tend to smash into her nose when we try to get those last few drops of milk.
Owlet Smart Sock 2 Monitor (Renewed) >>> We have been using this refurbished sleeping monitor from day one. If you purchase a refurbished one, you can save $100 and still get a warranty. Win Win. Our Dr. actually recommended this product to us. Maggie has a mild case of Laryngomalacia (basically scary sounding breathing due to a soft larynx that will correct itself over the next year) so we were nervous to fall asleep at night. This monitor gave us peace of mind and the ability to shut our eyes. The monitor tracks oxygen saturation and heart rate. If either drops below normal, an alarm will sound on the base station as well as your phones (so you can even be notified if you’re away and have a babysitter). I love this little sock. It doesn’t claim to prevent SIDS, but I think any sort of extra monitoring can help.
<<<Aquaphor Baby Healing Ointment I use this healing ointment every night as part of our bedtime routine. First a bath, then a mixture of this Aquaphor with a small dot of 1% hydrocotisone Aveeno Cream (her Dr. recommended it, but ask yours first before using). Maggie’s skin has been smooth and clear ever since using this nightly mixture. No more baby rashes or dry skin! This stuff works like a charm. I even started using it on myself 😉 The Aveeno cream clears the irritation and the Aquaphor seals in the skins natural moisture.
DockATot Deluxe (Bananas for You)>>> So I have to admit, I didn’t put this product on our baby shower registry because I thought it was too expensive for what it was (a glorified pillow). But my cousin surprised me with this very generous gift and it is THE BEST! You can use it for co-sleeping, naps or as a comfy place to set your baby down while you need to free your arms up. We bring it everywhere with us.
<<<Munchkin Bottle Brush 2 Pack Great brushes. I like that they have the little rubber brush (hidden in the base) to clean the bottle nipples! Honestly, I’d buy more than a 2-pack… you’ll go through them pretty quickly if you wash all your bottles by hand. I change them out every 4 weeks or so.
Baby Shusher Sound Machine>>> Our little one spent the first few days of her life under a light therapy lamp to help cure her jaundice. We wanted to hold her and snuggle her but were told we had to leave her under the lights as much as possible to get ride of her jaundice. This baby shusher worked like a charm to help calm her down. She would fall asleep to its soothing shushing while holding our finger.
<<<Nurtureland Teething Toys I just started using these a few weeks ago. She seems to really like the silicon texture on these fruit teethers. They are easy for her to hold and I like that I they can stand upright when she’s done playing with them, so I don’t have to lay the drooly chew toy on the table.
Infant Contoured Changing Pad>>> This is the changing pad that I put on top of her changing table/dresser in her room. It comes with a waterproof fabric (which you will definitely need). I put a soft chenille cover over it – but it’s in the wash half the time…cuz babies poop a lot! This pad keeps things tidy and easy to clean.
<<<My Brest Friend Nursing Pillow I went with the boppy pillow at first, but found it to be too small and too soft (still great for tummy time though). This Brest Friend has more structure and two convenient pillow mounds for your baby to rest their head on while feeding. It even has a water bottle holder. Genius.
<<<Hatch Baby Rest Sound Machine, Night Light and Time-to-Rise Love this idea. So far we’ve only used it for its sound machine feature, but you can also use it to signal your toddler time-to-rise at certain hours. This noise machine is linked to your phone and you can control it from a different room so you don’t have to wake your baby. It has multiple sounds like ocean, rain, nature, TV fuzz, dryer machine, twinkle tunes etc. as well as multiple colors and brightness options. The only complaint I have is that you have to be in a relatively close range to control the machine from your phone – I say about 30 feet or less from the base.
Fisher-Price Sit-Me-Up [Amazon Exclusive] >>> We got this as a hand-me-down from a sweet friend. It’s more compact than the bumbo and basically does the same thing except this one is fabric and you can attach toys to it. I like to put Maggie in it while we’re eating lunch or when I need to do something on my own for a hot minute. It helps her sit up and feel like she’s interacting with us – looking around and getting a different perspective instead of just chillin on a blanket.
<<<Lotus Travel Crib – Backpack Portable Love this potable “Pack n Play” style crib. Dan and I like to travel, so we wanted a crib that was light weight and can fit into a backpack or overhead compartment. It’s simple to use and has a fun side zipper so she can crawl in or out. It’s easy for us to participate in an activity with her while we lay on the ground (read a book, play with some toys etc.) and then zip her in when it’s time for a nap.
Melissa & Doug Rainbow Stacker Classic Toy>>> This toy is for a toddler, but it’s a classic and childhood favorite so I had to add it. The quality of Melissa and Doug toys are always top-notch and the colors are beautiful. This company has a 100% HAPPINESS GUARANTEE on all of their products, so if you aren’t happy with it, give them a call and they’ll make it right. So far (5 month old) Maggie just likes looking at the colors and reaching for them. Stacking will come in time.
<<<Baby Stroller Organizer with Cup Holders Fantastic! It fits almost any stroller with its adjustable velcro straps. It’s so helpful for holding water bottles (or coffee, lots of coffee). wallets, snacks, cell phones etc. I don’t even take it off our stroller. the fabric is easy to clean. I really like the magnetized flap compartment – I usually put a pacifier or my phone in there, so I can grab it with one hand while walking.
Zacro Baby Car Mirror>>> Every parent needs this car mirror if you plan on driving with a rear facing car seat. It’s comforting being able to glance in your rearview mirror and check on your kiddo. There have been many times when Maggie has made a weird noise (or no noise at all) and I’ll get nervous and want to see if she is ok. This mirror fits over the top of the backseat headrest with adjustable straps and can pivot to your preferred angle for an optimal view. Made from shatterproof acrylic material.
<<<Jolly Jumper & Stand Baby Exerciser She just started using the Jolly Jumper a few days ago and so far, it’s a huge hit! The stand is gigantic, but you can fold it up, so no big deal. I also like the idea that you can take it with you (camping or backyard) and you don’t need a door frame to hang it on like other models. The quality and design of this jumper can’t be beat! And Maggie has a great time in it – so many laughs and smiles!
Innovo Hospital Grade Silicone Twister Bulb>>> This one is a keeper! If you’re planning on giving birth in a hospital the nurses will most likely give you the infamous blue aspirator bulb. The one they give you gets the job done, but you can’t see through it or clean in properly. I like the Innovo because you can take the bulb apart and clean it. The tip of the Innovo bulb is smaller so it’s easier to suction out those tiny baby nostrils etc.
<<<Baby Banz Earmuffs Infant Hearing Protection Really? Yes. Useful when using blenders, moving the lawn, vacuuming, loud wedding DJ’s, worship at church gettin a lil too rowdy 😉 and many other loud activities in life. Put these on your babe and she’ll continue sleeping. Maybe Mag’s is just a chill baby, but she doesn’t seem to mind these on her head.
Wooden Baby Hair Brush Set >>> The soft bristle brush and the silicon scrubber will come in handy from day one. The other brush will be more useful as your little one gets older (or grows more hair). I like the kit, because it has all three types and they’re made well.
<<<Brave Little Camper A cute book that has sounds to go along with the story. Dan is really into camper trailers and camping so this is a fun book for them to read together. As I’m sure you already know, talking and reading to your children is important for their language development – even if they can’t understand you yet. Any book will do!
Be Mindful Retro Scout Baby Carrier Backpack>>> This is a splurge item…not necessary by any means. Currently sitting in our garage – yet to go on an excursion, but it looks really fun. We’re going to wait until she gets a little bigger to use it. The pack can carry a child weighing up to 40lbs, has an adjustable 5 point harness, kickstand + comes with a travel bag and hydration pack. The company has a money-back guarantee if you don’t like it. We can’t wait to use this one at the cabin.
<<<Joovy Spoon Walker A walker / portable play mobile with a removable tray for easy cleaning. The whole walker folds flat for storage and the seat pad is machine washable. There are three height positions. This walker is such a great find and has fabulous reviews.
Pura Vida Ring Sling Baby Carrier>>> Designed by a mom of two, their mission is to help families around the world. All ring slings are backed by a LIFETIME GUARANTEE and 5% OF PROFITS GO TO FAMILIES IN NEED: with each purchase, this company will donate on your behalf to CEPIA, a charity supporting low-income families in Costa Rica. Sling carriers help create a womb-like position & nurture the bond between Mama and baby (Daddies too). This sling is made with eco friendly soft bamboo and linen and copper/rose gold rings. I really like using this sling for around the house while I do chores. There is a useful open pocket that will hold a bottle and pacifier on the end of the fabric. I can just reach down and grab what I need. Great design!
<<<BIBS Baby Pacifier | Made in Denmark I liked this brand of pacifiers the best. The tips of them are rounder and bigger than most, so they stay in your baby’s mouth better. I also like that they have a handle that can attach to a pacifier clip.
Miniware Teething Spoon Set>>> Soft silicone spoons in different colors. They’re easy-to-clean and are ergonomically designed so minis can bite and chew as they learn to feed themselves. These utensils are an ideal weight for toddlers to learn balance and control. And they’re pretty darn cute.
<<<Spectra – S1 Rechargeable Electric Breast Pump I use this pump EVERYDAY if you plan on breastfeeding and want to share the duty, than you’ll need a GOOD pump. This one will do a great job and I love that it’s portable. It will last for 3-30 min pump sessions before needing to be recharged. The pump has different suction levels so you can figure out what suits you best and there is a convenient night light.
Mustela Foam Shampoo for Newborns>>> Mustela is a wonderful company. I can’t wait to get more stuff from them. We used this shampoo foam for Maggie’s cradle cap and it cured it in 2 washes! It’s gentle and tear-free with natural Avocado oil. It’s a soap-free formula composed of 99% natural ingredients that will protect your baby’s scalp and rinse away cradle cap flakes. Newborn safe.
<<<Munchkin Baby Food Feeder These silicon feeders are fantastic for introducing new foods, room temp or frozen. I like to put breastmilk in mine and pop them in the freezer. Maggie uses them as soothing sucker for her gums. I have yet to try other food, but I’ve heard many parents like to cut up fruit and squish it inside. Babies can gnaw on the pops and they love the fun flavors.
Modern Pacifier Clip for Baby>>> A cute pacifier clip that safely attach to your infant’s clothing to secure your baby’s soothies and mini toys will remain clean and off the floor. Made from high-quality food grade chewbeads BPA free.
<<<Munchkin Puck Baking Soda Cartridge I stick this on the bottom of Maggie’s Ubbi pail. Replace it every 60-90 days for freshest results. It can be used almost anywhere – in garbage cans, diaper bags, refrigerators and more!
Ubbi Steel Diaper Pail>>> I liked the look of this diaper pail and it had great reviews so I put it on our registry. It did not disappoint! We’ll change take out the dirty diapers every 3 days or so and her room doesn’t smell at all! I liked that you don’t have to buy special bags for it (like other brands of diaper pails) and it holds up to 55 diapers! There is also a childproof lock to keep out curious toddlers.
<<<Cuddle Fleece Blanket Silky and velvety – the best of both comforting materials. She really enjoys this blanket. I have a feeling we’ll be buying more of these with the amount of use it’s getting!
Puracy Organic Baby Care>>> This baby shampoo and lotion won the award for the best baby skincare products by The BUMP. It was developed by doctors and is a natural, plant-powered formula, sulfate-free and NO HARSH CHEMICALS. Maggie uses this cleanser everyday during bath time and it agrees with her skin.
<<<Two Peas Organics SPF 30 Mineral Sunscreen You’ll want to keep your newborns out of the sun in general and always consult with your pediatrician before using topical creams, but when your kiddo is old enough for playing in the sun, this is your best bet sunscreen! It’s a certified organic suncreen that is coral reef friendly – no fragrance and no harmful chemicals. It’s great for the whole family. I’ve already used it on Maggie at 4-months and it worked wonderfully with no skin reactions.
L’ovedbaby Organic Cotton Footed Overall>>> Simple and cute. This brand was my favorite when she was a newborn and we wanted her hands to be covered so she wouldn’t scratch her face. They’re 100% cotton, with one leg snaps. Easy enough to change a diaper and resnap in the dark!
<<<Dordor & Gorgor Organic Zip Front Another favorite jammie. I am a huge fan of the one sided zipper footed PJ’s. They are so easy to get on and off and you don’t have to mess with pulling the outfit over your baby’s head and potentially upsetting them. 100% cotton and sports a safety tab over the top of the zipper to prevent the tab from scratching your baby’s chin.
Owlivia Organic Cotton Baby Zip>>> And yet another footed jammie…do you see a trend here? This brand is adorable (with lots of patern options too). The quality is nice and the cotton is thick. It’s not safe to let your kiddos sleep with blankets until they’re older (around 1 year), so the long sleeved arms and legs will keep them warm and comfortable throughout the night.
<<<Kimono Onesie With Mittens, 4 Pack Get these and you’ll be happy! 100% soft cotton. These side snap onsie’s will make your life as a new parent easier! There is no need to disturb your little one by pulling a shirt over their head and the mitten cuffs will help prevent scratching. Maggie lived in side-snap onsie’s with mittens and footed jammies for the first 3 months! I’d only dress her in an outfit for special outings.
Swimsuit>>> A cute swimsuit. If you have a boy, click here. A swimsuit is not going to be necessary for an infant, but it’s kind of fun to include them in the family beach attire (if you live by the beach like us) and because it’s stinking adorable! I’d say it’s more useful once your little one is old enough to go swimming. We can’t wait to start those swim lessons!
<<<Burt’s Bees No-Scratch Mitts Definitely need these if your kiddo is wearing outfits without mittens attached (as a newborn). Poor Maggie would scratch her face if we forgot to use them.
Asunflower Wooden High Chair>>> Dan and I really liked the simplicity of this high chair. No bells or whistles, just an easy to clean, modern chair that we don’t mind looking at everyday. It’s a sturdy chair that will hold up to 88lbs (<– that’s a big baby) and can adjust with your child’s height. The tray and seatbelt are removable for washing.
Babyletto Mercer 3-in-1 Convertible Crib>>> I like the extra storage on the bottom — a great space saver for her small room. The Babyletto Mercer converts into a toddler bed and daybed. This crib is screened for 360 VOCs and over 10,000 chemicals + meets all safety standards and has four adjustable mattress positions.
<<<Little Unicorn Marindale Backpack Baby Diaper Bag A diaper bag that Dan doesn’t mind carrying around too (not girly looking). It’s made of a durable canvas material and you can wear it as a backpack or side sling. The shoulder straps are adjustable and there are 7 roomy pockets. The leather buckles on the front are actually magnetic and there is a top zipper under the flap. There are 4 metal studs on the bottom of the backpack so you can set it down without getting the pack dirty. It’s pretty cool. The only thing I don’t like is if you wear it as a sling pack, the backpack straps are not removable, so they’re awkwardly hanging there. Still a great bag and made very well. Nice looking too!
Chicco Fit 2 Infant & Toddler Car Seat, Arietta >>> Dan and I wanted to get a car seat that would grow with her from infant to toddler. This is a rear-facing car seat for the first 2 years. We brought Maggie home in it, weighing 5lbs 14oz with the infant insert (that comes with the seat). She was definitely tiny in it and the straps were as tight as they could go, but it worked. It’s a deeper car seat compared to others I’ve seen, but I think kids like that feeling of being tucked in. We bought an adapter for our stroller (City Mini GT) and it’s a great travel system – unclicks from the base in the car and click onto the stroller in no time at all. #1-rated Key Fit Infant Car Seat.
<<<Indestructibles: My Neighborhood This company makes fantastic indestructible baby books. They are chew proof, rip proof, nontoxic and you can even through them in your washing machine! Delightful for babies to page through on their own or with Mom or Dad or an older sibling. All of their books have bright pictures and minimal text.
Sophie The Giraffe Teether and Squeaker>>> A classic French baby toy that is too cute to pass up. Sophie la giraffe, the most beloved teether for over 55 years. Made of 100% natural rubber from the Hevea tree and squeaks when you squeeze her.
<<<Baby Jogger City Mini GT2 Single Stroller I did A LOT of research before selecting ours. It’s so easy to use, you can close it up with one hand. There is a pull tab in the middle of the seat — you just pull it up and the stroller collapses in half. When you’re ready to open it up again, you just hold the handle bars, unsnap the side lock and stand up. It’s so compact! The man who sold it to me, said “it’s compact enough to ride on the Disnelyland tram with it.” SOLD. Checkout the video in the link to see how it works. I got a different car seat to pair with it as a travel system (I heard the city mini car seat wasn’t great) so I got this one instead with this adapter. Works Perfectly.
Boogie Wipes>>> Glorified baby wipes that smell good and are gentle on your kiddos face. Soothes and moisturizes with aloe, chamomile and vitamin E. Hypoallergenic and free of alcohol.
<<<Exergen Temporal Scan Forehead Artery Baby Thermometer This one is perfect for little kids, just press down the button and hold it while you sweep from the middle of the forehead to the side of the temple, then let go of the button. You can get your kids temp in seconds vs. struggling with a thermometer that takes 3 minutes. It’s fast and babies don’t mind it.
Skip Hop Moby Bath Tear-Free Waterfall Rinser Bath Cup>>> There is a rubber lip that you can place on your babies forehead while you pour water. The rubber lip will stop water from dripping in you kiddos face. Honestly the curve of the lip is a bit wide for newborns, but it’s going to work perfectly when Maggie’s head gets bigger as a toddler.
<<<Nursing Breastfeeding Cover Scarf I bought this one for myself and loved it. I accidentally left it on top of her stroller while I was jogging and it blew off somewhere on the boardwalk. If you see it, please pick it up for me 😉 I want it back! It’s a great cover for breastfeeding, stretching over your stroller or car seat and you can use it as a scarf or a grocery cart blanket.
Munchkin Mist Wipe Warmer>>> It seems a tad silly, but this wipe warmer will help your baby stay calm and happy — at least that has been our experience. Maggie seems to enjoy the warm wipes and stays in a dream-like state during night time diaper changes. I think the cold wipes, shock the kiddos and wake them up. It holds up to 100 wipes. We use the Costco brand and 1 pack fits to the brim!
<<<Will You Be My Sunshine A cute book with adorable pictures. Sharing this message with your little love of any age is reassuring and comforting. A wonderful gift idea for showers, birthdays, and first libraries.
Starry Globe Nightlight>>> A wonderful nightlight. I wouldn’t recommend this item to be within reach of your baby (as it’s made of ceramic), but it looks great on a dresser or table. This lamp has a warm glow that casts little stars on the walls. Magical! It’s the perfect light to illuminate the pillow-forts you’ll make with your young kids.
<<<Infant Optics DXR-8 Video Baby Monitor This is the monitor we use in addition to the owlet (first time parents over here). The picture quality is great during the day and the night vision works well (just a tad fuzzy). I like that you can zoom in and talk to your baby on an intercom from the portable screen. The only thing I’m bummed about is the range. We live in a small house and our living room is about 30 feet from the back bedroom and we’ll loose signal from time to time. I think it does best when there is only one wall of separation and less than 30ft. I still think it’s one of the best video monitors out there and it does a good job.
Munchkin White Hot Inflatable Duck Tub >>> We just got this one a few weeks ago and it will come in handy when we go camping. It’s a portable tub! It would be difficult to wash a newborn in this one, but I think a 6th month old and up would enjoy this cute tub. We take it out in the backyard and fill it with warm water and help Maggie splash around in it. She’s about 5 months and still needs help sitting up in it.
<<<Sealy Flex Cool 2-Stage Waterproof Airy Dual Firmness Toddler & Baby Crib Mattress Waterproof surface with soft cotton. PVC-free cover is breathable, while a waterproof barrier lining helps prevent liquids from seeping inside that can cause mold, mildew, and odor. 204 durability-tested coils for premium firmness. This mattress offers a firmer infant side and a softer toddler side. An award winning brand, made in the US and meets or exceeds all flammability, lead, phthalate and CPSIA testing.
Munchkin Scented Diaper Bag Dispenser>>> Funny but useful. I’ve been asked twice now…”what kind of dog do you have?” Ha-ha. But all jokes aside, this mini scented trash bag dispenser is great when you need to change your baby’s diaper and there is no trashcan in sight. Just put that stinky diaper in one of these bags and tuck it back in your pack or car until you can dispose of it properly.
<<<Hefty Trash Bags – Lavender & Sweet Vanilla The best smelling trash bags that you’ll ever smell. So babies poop a TON! They are stinky little poop machines. I use these trash bags inside our diaper pail, as well as in our kitchen. They help keep our house smelling fresh and clean. I don’t think we’ll ever want to go back to the unscented ones!
Ergobaby Carrier, 360 with Cool Air Mesh>>> The Ergo carrier is definitely my favorite way to carry Mags. Slings are fun and look cool, but they’re only comfortable for awhile. Maggie will actually fall asleep in an Ergo. I own the 360 non-mesh one. It was a hand-me-down from my bud and she preferred the mesh one, so that’s the link I’m giving you. I’m sure any Ergo you get will be a good one! P.S. You’ll need the infant insert if you plan on using it for your baby that is under 12 lbs.
<<<Glider Bassinet Cradle We were gifted this amazing bassinet (ours is in white) Maggie slept in it until 4 1/2 months and then we moved her to bigger crib. This glider is as smooth as butter, quiet and the perfect height to roll up on the side of your bed. It was easy to turn over and pick her up in the middle of the night… or reach my arm out and gently rock her if she got fussy. We really enjoyed this classic bassinet.
Dreft Liquid Baby Laundry Detergent>>> Gawwwww this smells so good. There is nothing quite like the scent of your babe wrapped in a freshly washed Dreft blanket. Newborn skin is extremely sensitive and this detergent is hypoallergenic and very gentle on baby skin. And let’s be honest…babies have blowouts quite often and you’ll appreciate a laundry detergent with a delightful smell.
Child Safety Magnetic Locks We haven’t baby proofed the house yet (Maggie is still too young), but these are on our list. I’ve had numerous friends say that the magnetic safety locks are the best. Their little ones were too smart for the cheapo hook locks and figured out how to open them within a few weeks. These are the best reviewed safety locks for your cabinets and drawers.
Bebe au Lait Muslin Bandana Bib, Dottie>>> Pleasantly pleased with this drool bib. Around 4 months, Maggie started drooling….puddles of drool. I put this cute bandana on her so her outfit doesn’t get soaked. Bebe an Lait has lots of adorable prints.
Not Pictured, but still just as useful…I just got tired of coding 😉 ↓ Below↓
Mo and I met when we were 3 years old! Our siblings were in the same kindergarten class, so Melissa and I had our first platydate that fateful year. We grew up together, pretended to be the Olsen twins, wrote fan letters to JTT, spent sunny days at the beach fishing for rock crabs with bacon on strings and going to summer camp together until our mid teens. From 1st grade to 1st boyfriends, getting married and now a BABY on the way; watching our lives unfold over the decades has been a treat Momo. I’m so happy for you and Jason and I can’t wait to meet your little man in just a few short weeks!
Here are some pictures of the baby shower that we (along with her Mama Sharon) threw for Momo in my Mother’s backyard. Sharon wanted to make it airplane themed to go along with Jason’s job. Cute idea Sharon!
The Mama-to-be looking beautiful as ever!
A cute onesie bouquet made by her sister Julie ^^^
“It’s a Boy” chocolates in my Grandfather’s 1950’s suitcase. ^^^
I went Skydiving with my Mamma and our friend Tena in celebration of my 29th! Woohooo last year of my 20’s. You guys are troopers and I’m so grateful you said yes. And thanks to my Hub for pushing me to fulfill one of my life-to-do’s… I had many sleepless nights before this day and you never stopped encouraging me. You’re the best babe. I know jumping out of a plane is not your idea of fun, but you knew it was mine and you gave me endless support and I love you for that and so much more. Here’s to stepping outside of my comfort zone, trying new things and living life to the fullest. Love you guys.
Here’s how my day went and what to expect on your first tandem jump.
Anticipation is the worst part. I’d suggest making your appointment a few days before you go…no need to make it weeks before like I did. There were too many days filled with watching YouTube videos of skydiving gone wrong. Don’t do that! Check the weekly weather report for your drop zone and pick a day that is sunny with low wind.
Morning of, we drove out to Skydive Elsinore and checked-in at the office. We watched a funny outdated video – an older guy with a majestic beard discussing the dangers of skydiving. Brilliant, they already have me laughing…I can’t take ZZ Top-in-a-suit seriously, so I’m just going to sign these release forms. Tandem jumps are preformed by professionals that have hundreds, if not thousands of jumps under their belts. Sign away and it’s time to get stoked!
We were some of the first tandem jumpers that day so we didn’t have to wait long. I heard if you pick a later time slot that you might have to wait around the drop zone longer, because earlier jumps are postponed for whatever reason (weather, plane maintenance, late arrivals etc). Plan on being at the drop zone for 3-4 hours. Bring some items to help you pass the time or just hangout and watch other skydivers land. It’s pretty fascinating watching them zip down so quickly.
We had about 45 minutes of downtime. I walked out to the Skylark and watched a military plane takeoff with a bunch of camouflaged divers packed in like sardines. Training maybe. I sat on log near the runway by the old Airstream trailer and Winnebago and called my friend Julia who had jumped a few months before.
“So Jul’s I jump in just a few minutes…any tips?”
“Just smile and enjoy it.”
“Oh God, OK. I can do this!”
I was the first to meet my instructor – Marcelo Zoni, who came up to greet me with a smile. I got suited up and he made sure everything fit correctly. He gave me the lowdown on what I needed to do – “keep your arms in close to your body and hold onto your shoulder straps. Keep your head up and tilted back while we jump out. Once we’re out I’ll tap to signal when you can put your arms out to the side. Don’t forget to arch your back while we fall.” So I listened and replayed his instructions over and over in my head…and then my thoughts turned to how I would frantically attempt to save both of us if something happened to him because of all those stupid youtube videos that I had watched days before. I bet I would qualify for an AFF 1 jump, with the amount of skydiving research I read over the past weeks. Oh Lord. Think happy thoughts. Everything will be fine. This is an exciting, happy day…
I found myself asking stupid questions like, “so how many times have you jumped (which I’m sure every instructor gets asked multiple times a day)? How old are you? Do you have a family? Children? You need to be there for someone right? Just checking.”
My videographer interviewed me on the ground and in the plane… he asked several questions about whether I was nervous and if it was my first jump etc. I said something like…”oh I hope we make it, I love you family. Send my love to my hub.”
Before I knew it, it was time to go. I’m sure every plane is different, but ours held 14 people with two benches and a few floor spots. The plane took off and we climbed higher and higher until we reached about 12,500 ft. It was cold and loud inside our tiny plane. I was the closest to the door when the single jumpers rolled it back. My heart raced and I grabbed my shoulder straps while looking out the door. Wow this is really happening! And then the first team of 3 singles jumped out. They just fell out door in a cute little party pack and disappeared. Weird. My mind seemed to disconnect at this point. This is all so funny. People jumping out of planes…how is this OK? Then the next guy literally swan dived out the door. I remember watching him get smaller and smaller. Well, I’m up.
We scooted up to the door. I saw the curve of the horizon. Amazing! My photographer put his hand on my shoulder (I’d like to think he was praying for us), I think it was just a technique to stay level with us when we jumped. And then I felt a hand on my forehead – a reminder to keep my head back before he threw me out of the plane. I was definitely in shock of what was about to happen…just grinning from ear to ear and feeling out-of-body. It felt like a dream. Then he gave two swings and pushed away from the door.
Oh my God…
Those first 3 seconds took my breath away in the best possible way.
It’s pure magic.
It’s out of this world one of the most amazing feelings. You’re falling but you don’t feel like falling. You feel like you’re flying on a windy day. It’s very odd, peaceful, thrilling, happy and freeing all at once. There was no anxiety, no tension, no worry about plummeting towards the ground. I know this description is eye-roll-worthy but it felt comforting in a spiritual way. What was I afraid of? This is beautiful. (side note…I bet a solo dive is completely different. The best part about a tandem is you get to sit back and relax).
^^^A message to my Love at home who took over my work shift and told me to jump out of a plane…so sweet of him. I think 😉 Love you babe.
Then there was a quick jerk up from the chute opening and a moment of heaviness. Our chute had opened successfully and the wind had stopped. Back to reality. I think I yelled “It opened!” and he said “Of course it opened!” He showed me how to direct the parachute, pull left for left turns and right for right. Pull both to slow down and let loose for full speed. It was surprisingly easy.
The landing was fairly easy. He pulled a few quick S turns to position ourselves for the drop zone. At the last moment he flared the chute and we landed graceful on our bums! Not even a grass stain on my jeans. Nice job! Very impressed. Thank you!
My mom and Tena landed right after me. All three of us had an amazing time, one that I will never forget.
Later that night after googling more skydiving I stumbled across the Fresh Prince himself who had some wise words to share and I quote, “at the point of maximum danger [that first second you jump out] is the point of minimum fear. God places the best things in life on the other side of fear.” I couldn’t agree more. Anything worthwhile in this life will make you nervous – all those big decisions and moments. The rewards are so spectacular once you have the courage to commit. Sometimes you just need to trust your gut and take that leap. I’m so glad I did and you will be too. It’s fun to see what we are capable of. Life is good. Everyone needs to experience this at least once in their life – or maybe more. Sign me up again!
1 month countdown until we leave for Bali! I am beyond excited to say the least! We hope to spend a few days in Uluwatu – exploring different surf breaks and zipping around on motorbikes. Then upwards and inwards to Ubud – jungle trekking, hanging with monkeys in the Sacred Monkey Forest, a sunrise hike, swimming in waterfalls, walking along the rice fields, coffee tasting at plantations, cooking lessons and much more. The last leg of our trip we’ll be spending time in Canggu to meet up with some friends who live there. Surf, surf, surf, snorkel, explore cafe’s, babi guling shacks, fruit markets and then… doing absolutely nothing 🙂 I can’t wait! I’ve heard Bali is paradise on earth. Here is a packing list I put together for a 2 week trip.
1. Sleeping case. Perfect for those hotels with questionable/no blankets.
2. Playing cards. It’s a looooong flight. Dan and I like to play cards to pass the time.
3.SD card adapter. I use this to transfer my pictures from my camera or GoPro to my iPhone or iPad. Super useful! Bring and SD 32GB or bigger to take lots of pictures and videos.
4. Camera. I use the Canon Rebel T3. Durable and easy to use (bring your charger too).
5. Passport, wallet (cc, cash in both currencies home country and Indonesian rupiah), money-belt, travel docs, important papers, copies of passports, international drivers licence, itinerary, phone numbers and medical information in case of an emergency (and in case your electronics run out of juice/ are stolen/ break)
6. Day pack. Canvas bag that is easy to roll up and stick inside your larger pack. Something smaller that you can use during the day while you leave your bigger pack locked up at the hotel.
7. Flashlight and extra batteries
8. GoPro for capturing water pictures and videos (bring your charger too).
9.Travel Pillow. Great for the airplane and your lower-end hotels that don’t provide pillows.
10. Small thin towel that will dry fast.
11. Mini speaker for playing tunes in your room or at the beach.
12. Digital waterproof travel watch with multiple alarms for catching sunrise hikes and waking early etc. This one has multiple time zones so you’ll know what time it is back at home. Pretty cheap too!
14. Sunglasses and/or Rx glasses
15. A few dresses: Tobi olive & toast knit dress -I like this one for the beach. It has a cute low back, but still modest enough for a cafe or Tobi Magdalena black shift dress – perfect for a night out at Single Fin or Kubu. Tobi has a bunch of cute affordable outfits. It’s fun to pick out a few for a trip.
16. A few blouses, bodysuits, tops (mixed up). I like this this Alley Rose Ribbed Bodysuit. Remember to cover up if you’re visiting a temple or a sacred place. This suit is best for lounging by the pool or around your hotel or rental home.
17. Cover ups. Thin shawls or light kimonos to cover your shoulders. It will keep the sun off as well as the mosquitoes.
18. Tanks for the beach. It can get hot and humid so a comfortable tank is perfect for keeping cool. Oh and undergarments. You can’t forget those! I’d say bring 1 weeks worth and do laundry half way through.
19. Flips, flats and one pair of sneakers and socks (for riding your motorcycle or scooter).
20. Mosquito net to keep the mozzies at bay. I’d also suggest bringing insect repellent with deet
21.Calculator for those moments that you don’t want to use your phone –> calculating currency exchanges. Double check everything and learn how to haggle.
22. PJ’s or 2 or 3 shirts that are comfortable to sleep in
23. Shorts about 3 pairs – 1 jean, 2 lighter material
24. Long flowy pants. Similar to the Thai style. 1 or 2 pairs
25. Sarong. Keep it in your day pack and whip it out if you need to cover your legs while visiting a temple. Also great for the beach and around the house.
26. Swimsuit (2 or 3)
27. Backpacking Pack – Store everything in this baby!
28. Hairbrush, clips, pins and bands
29. Earplugs earplugs earplugs! They will be your best friends – the only way you’ll be able to sleep on the airplane or in the jungle. Those cicada bugs party all night long.
30. It’s a 10 – hair detangler. A bit of splurge and one of my luxury items, but boy does it do the trick.
31. Shaving razor
32. Carmex is the best for lips and errrr your nose! OK this might be TMI, but the inside of my nose gets super dry on long flights (hurts to breathe through it), so freshen up in the bathroom – put a little carmex on a Q-tip and coat the inside of my nose. It works wonders me…feels so much better for hours. OK done being gross.
33. Eye drops
34. Make up essentials (concealer, powder, eyebrow pencil, tinted lip balm, waterproof mascara, bronzer) toiletries (mini shampoo, conditioner, toothbrush, paste, floss, face wash, face cream, nail file, feminine products, small Dolce Mia Tuberose lotion – smells so good, any personal products you’ll be needing.
35. World power adapter
36. A scarf! One of my favorite items…so useful! Use it as a blanket, a head cover, a towel or tie-strap etc.
37. Jacket with hood. Semi-waterproof for staying dry on land and toasty in the plane.
38. Multi tool knife. Don’t pack this one in your carry-on! Leave it in your checked bag. Comes in handy while traveling…cutting food, ropes, getting out splinters, protection etc.
39. Tissues (for your nose and…your bum). If carrying your own T.P. Roll is too big, then take a bunch of these tissue packets with you. T.P. is not always available in every bathroom so bring your own.
40. Basic first aid kit, hand sanitizer, band aids, tape, scissors , alcohol swabs, iodine, gloves, Rx medication, Aspirin, Imodium, Pepto, tweezers, extractors, tourniquet etc.
41. A Pen (and small note pad while you’re at it)! You’ll be scrambling to find one when you fill out travel forms.
42. Not necessary, but I love bringing watercolor brushes, pencils or a mini brush kit to paint in my travel journal. A bit silly but it’s something that makes me happy!
43. Travel Journal. I love writing down bullet points, ideas, things we did, places we visited etc. you can make it as elaborate or simple as you want. It’s fun to look back on.
44. Sunscreen! Put it on everyday!
45. Chargers. FOR EVERYTHING! iPhone ✓ iPad ✓ camera battery ✓ music speaker ✓ gopro ✓
46. Phone. Preferably with wifi capability or a travel plan. It will help you plan your trip along the way.
47. Travel lock or bike lock. If you’re planning on using a lock on your checked baggage, make sure your locks are TSA approved. I usually like to bring a bike lock with me so I can lock up my scooter, or lock my bags in a closet when we’re out and about etc.
48. Travel Mug. Great for keeping drinks hot or cold. Fill it up after the security check in the airport.
49. Dry bag and ziplocs. I like to bring a bunch of bags with me to help compress my clothes in my backpack. They also come in handy when you want to organize clean vs dirty for laundry day.
50.Wet Ones anti-bacterial wipes.
Other items that could help you out.
clothesline or rope( if you plan on doing your own laundry), scissors, small sewing kit, zip ties…